Love Versus Time-Josh Naqvi
Time is something that everyone feels the effect of but rarely considers. The poem "As I Walked Out One Evening" by W.H. Auden brought this thought to my mind. The poem begins with a lover making grandiose promises to the one they love. The promises go beyond the boundaries of space and time. This is common to see in a relationship. The couple does feel that they can truly survive anything. Auden however has a differing opinion. He seems to believe that you "cannot conquer time". Can love conquer time? I would like to think so, but perhaps a deeper inspection is in order before such an assumption can be made. For the sake of keeping my post a reasonable length, I will only be discussing love among two people. So I will stick within the context of the poem which is a Lover calling out.
The Lover in the poem seems to be ignorant of time. Time is depicted as an almost threatening force. It seems to be watching the Lovers, waiting for the opportune time to strike. I think that time can have a negative effect on a relationship. People may change: someone may pass away, or someone may end up having feelings for another. However, time can also be positive. I would argue that the Lover's could grow in affection, age together into a happy life, enjoy countless memories, and eventually pass on together. In either case, time is unavoidable. It will pass. The poem mentions how it passes in nature, "Time will have his fancy". It is obvious enough that time is unavoidable and that as mortals we are bound to it. Love is also unavoidable. Most people care about someone, whether it is a parent, sibling, friend, lover, or business associate. Love is just as inevitable as time. Which is a greater force? Time is the beginning and end of a mortal. It is its own downfall because it must always pass. Love is what sets people apart from other creatures. Love by concept alone is here to stay. That is the goal of romance is it not, to remain "in love". The point of family is to stick together because you love one another. Of course, love occasionally does fall apart. Yet, I will argue that its end goal is to remain. Auden ends the poem with an ominous tone. He seems to think that time will always have its way. Love can resist the effects of time because it is not easily forgotten. Even if a loved one dies due to the effects of time, we do not forgot them. They are held dearly until we pass away as well, and then I would hope our memory is held dear as well. Time and love are in a constant foot race. I disagree with Auden upon the premise that love is somehow always bested by time. Both are essential aspects in the lives of humans, but love in the end is what drives us due to it by. nature is meant to remain, even when time passes us.
I Responded to
-Madalyn Dillard
-Emily Otts
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I think that it is true we as humans can not conquer time. We can not freeze time or make it slow down or speed it up. Although this may sadden some people the good news is that we can cherish it. Instead of spending life trying to make time for things and dreading not having enough time, cherish the time you have because that is where you will get memories.
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