Rejected Proposals// Emily Otts
In Chapter 9 of Bleak House, while Mr Jarndyce, Esther, Ada, and Richard are being visited by Mr Boythorn for a time. Mr Guppy comes by one morning to visit him. At lunch time, Mr Guppy comes to Esther, wishing to have a private conversation, which she obliges. In this conversation, Mr Guppy proposes to Esther. Shocked and disgusted, she rejects him. He leaves, certain she will change her mind.
While reading this, I could not help but to be reminded of a similar instance in Pride and Prejudice, when Mr Collins proposed to Elizabeth Bennet. Both men had made proposals to women who did not now them as well. Both were rejected. And both men believed the women would change their mind.
Another thing they had in common was something a lot of marriages were based on the economic aspect of the contract. Mr Collins mostly just wanted to marry Elizabeth for the estate and reputation. Even though Mr Guppy claimed to be in love with Esther, he still started off by stating his salary: "Mr present salary, Miss Summerson, at Kenge and Carboy's, is two pounds a week. When I first had the happiness of looking upon you, it was one-fifteen, and had stood at that figure for a lengthened period." Back in these times, women had to depend on their husbands for a means of living, thus showing why both characters bring this up when proposing. It definitely shows how different the idea of marriage has changed over the centuries.
I commented on Emma Dalgety's and Emmett Bryant's posts.
I like how you tied the book to another piece of literature. It is important to be able to tie something new to something old as this helps us better understand the new concept.
ReplyDeleteThis is so accurate! This is especially frustrating when considering the culture of the time. Like you mentioned, marriage for women is a matter of economics. When a women’s entire livelihood is based on a man’s income then it is only wise to marry for financial stability. However, this is frustrating to a modern audience because women no longer have to marry in order to live a good life and I think Lizzie and Esther know there is something wrong with this system deep down.
ReplyDeleteI love how you tie this in to Pride and Prejudice, which is probably my favorite Jane Austen novel to date. It is also interesting how both men bring up the subject of their salary; I hadn’t thought about that. The idea of marriage has definitely changed since those times. Back then, women had to depend on their husbands for money; nowadays, a woman can choose.
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